If you know how to get fun out of the so-called discomforts, then you should know you are on the right lines.
And as you start becoming discreet automatically, you should know you are progressing well.
As you become more peaceful and your temper vanishes in the thin air as soon as you see somebody attacking you, then know that you are progressing well.
As soon as you see an ordeal or a calamity falling on the personality and you do not get worried about it, then know that you are progressing.
When no amount of artificiality can impress you, then know that you are progressing.
No amount of material well-being in others makes you unhappy, no more unhappy, then know that you are progressing well.
Shri Mataji, 1984-0505